Fans are curious to know more about Phoebe Tonkin’s husband. The Australian actress, known for her roles in The Vampire Diaries and The Originals, recently made headlines with her elegant New York wedding. While Tonkin is no stranger to the spotlight, her partner keeps a lower profile. This has sparked even more interest among fans.
Here’s everything you need to know about Phoebe Tonkin’s husband, including his job, background, and their romantic journey together.
Who is Phoebe Tonkin’s husband?
Phoebe Tonkin is married to Bernard Lagrange.
Despite living in the limelight, Tonkin successfully kept her romantic life under wraps for quite some time. However, the details of how and when she met her partner remain a mystery. She brought their relationship to light and officially confirmed it in October 2024 by sharing a series of casserole-themed posts on her Instagram. The posts showcased her sparkling new diamond ring after Lagrange proposed to her.
She surprised fans by unveiling a collection from her ‘summer of love,’ captured through the lens of her friend, Mark Bauch. During her interview with Vogue, she also confirmed the relationship, stating, “We got engaged in Provence, in a house by ourselves, just the two of us.”
Recently, Phoebe got married to her beloved Bernard Lagrange on Saturday, May 10, 2025, sharing the news on Instagram. The wedding was a chic event, characterized by romantic silhouettes, candid film photography, and a touch of modern elegance. It took place at All Souls Church in New York, where the Australian actress dazzled in her custom Chanel couture gown. She later celebrated with guests at a reception held at Eleven Madison Park. Among the guests were her Vampire Diaries co-star Claire Holt, who served as a bridesmaid, along with Samara Weaving and Teresa Palmer. (via nowtolove)
Here’s Bernard Lagrange’s job and Instagram
Bernard Lagrange is a Special Assistant to the CEO, Contemporary Art & Digital for Sotheby’s. His Instagram handle is @berndogl.
He pursued art history at Princeton University and has been working at Sotheby’s for ten years and nine months as a special assistant to the CEO. His current company is a major player in the fine arts sector. Experts recognize it as one of the largest brokers of art, jewelry, and collectibles. Before this, he gained experience as an intern at Frieze and Gagosian Gallery. (via LinkedIn) Lagrange appears to lead a very private life compared to his wife, as even his Instagram account is private, featuring a humorous bio that reads, “Worst salesman in the history of art.”
Originally reported by Ayesha Zafar on ComingSoon.
